I think in any relationship marriage, friendship, dating, Ds that at some point you will find that one person seems to be a little bit further along the road. Everyone grows, and learns at a different pace. There are many things that affect that. Happiness, sadness, loss, gain, anger. It’s how you come out the other side that defines where you are on the path. What do you do when you find that you still love each other but are in different places?
Can you still be happy? Be happy together?
I think it’s a little unfair to make the one you love feel bad over being in a different place. Or try to make them step back to be in line with you.
Just as it’s unfair for the one that has grown to make the other one leap to match their place in life.
Is it possible to still be a happy couple and not be in the same place?
How do you navigate this life change?