The collar….a goal all Submissive’s have.
What does it symbolize?
If you never reach that level does it mean you’re less of a submissive? Less owned?
Now when you are concidering a Ds relationship the question of weather or not that particular Dom collars his subs should be asked. Some don’t want the outward statement. Some may use several types of collars before you get to your formal collar. It should take time to earn. And yes it is something you earn.
Some times people prefer a ring, or a bracket, or a nice necklace.
If you never reach that point that’s ok!!! It’s doesn’t mean your Ds relationship means less than someone else’s.
Collars are the outward acknowledgment of the dedication and commitment that has been made between Dom and sub.